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Pathology of Cynicism

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A short piece I read which resonated with me.... To learn one must make an active commitment not to succumb to   the pathology of cynicism , our flawed self-protection mechanism that readily dismisses anything sincere and true as simplistic or naïve — even if, or precisely because, we know that all real truth and sincerity are simple by virtue of being true and sincere.

The most precious gift that parents can give....their own HAPPINESS

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The most precious gift that parents can give....their own HAPPINESS One particular point about modern day parenting has particularly bothered me - the incessant desire to provide for the children even at the cost of this own happiness.  Something about this 'sacrifice' grated with me.  Sometimes I feel that I am not self-less enough as I looked around. My gut tells me that it is my duty to provide adequately, but the biggest gift my wife and I can give our daughter is our own happiness. In a great scene from the "Cat on a Hot Tin Roof" Paul Newman and  his father 'Big Daddy' have a powerful moment when they actually discover this in the midst of a long standing and simmering fight between them  This morning, when I came across this lovely quote from the legendary  Thich Nhat Hanh, it felt good.  "I f our parents didn’t love and understand each other, how are we to know what love looks like? … The most precious inheritance that parents...

I GREW UP SCOFFING RITUALS...........UNTIL I WAS WILLING AND ABLE TO LISTEN

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Yup, I grew up scoffing mindless ritualistic ceremonies. But only recently, have I been open to dig deeper. One such instance was about a week ago.  Eastern traditions are replete with stories of how the gods are invoked during pious religious ceremonies. Seemed incredulous to me! Then, I heard an explanation by  Shantanu Jignasu Dasharath  at such an event last week which gave me a different perspective. Fire tends to play a pivotal role in various ceremonies. The transformative element of fire is celebrated across various cultures. At these events, if one were to consciously cast away all that we don't want into the fire (anger with someone, jealously, regret, laziness, etc), one emerges feeling better, nay feel GREAT. It is this feeling of goodness that attracts like minded good souls/positive energies to us. This seems logical to me. Gratitude for one more important understanding in the fascinating transformative journey!

The laugh of Innocence and Unbridled Joy!

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What's special about these pictures? What makes it more than another family portrait?  Look at the expressions of the folks holding the two bundles of joy!  Amazing how being with innocent brings out the spontaneous joy in us! 

Staying Positive and the Role of Yoga....Good piece by Sw. Niranjan

Story: Positivity and Acceptance has to be the Focus in Life if You want to Succeed  smile emoticon If there are two piles, One of Gold and One of Dirt, which one will You Choose? The Gold One. If there is only one pile in which the dirt and gold are mixed, what will you do?  Separate the gold from the dirt and take the gold. Can you do that with yourself? The personality is a combination of both  rubbish and gold. Generally people are affected by the rubbish and ignore the gold. It is for this reason that, despite having so much to give, so much to receive and so many positive qualities within, we identify with the negative. Separating the Negative from the Positive and selecting and Holding onto the Positive is the Purpose of Yoga. It is that Purpose which has to be Fulfilled in Life. When it comes to individual development and perception, the awareness must be deepened in such a way that we are aware of the grime or dirt, the negative, as well as the beautiful, the ...