Tillitonse - A Transformational Journey Together

  Living Fully and Leading with Intention "I have no intention of dying before my death." This powerful declaration set the tone for an inspiring morning, offering valuable insights for today’s leaders. We gathered in a sunlit, glass-enclosed room—a perfect setting for a Sunday filled with meaningful conversations and deep reflections. The atmosphere was warm, the coffee was perfect, but the true highlight of the morning was a discussion with a centenarian who had recently celebrated his 100th birthday. For the next hour, we were guided through a fascinating conversation about life lessons and their relevance in today’s fast-paced, ever-changing world. This centenarian’s wisdom was profound, and as leaders, we were reminded that leadership is as much about character and wisdom as it is about strategy and execution. Here are some key lessons that stood out, offering valuable guidance for leaders at every stage: "I have no intention of dying before my death." This sta...

The Power of HALT: A Simple Tool for Emotional Balance Last week, I shared insights on the importance of trusting your gut instincts as a leader. If you missed it, you can catch up here .  This week, I’m excited to dive into a related topic: The Power of H.A.L.T. Imagine this: I woke up on the last day of a blissful vacation with my extended family, only to realize I'd slept for just three hours. As you can guess, I was a bit groggy and out of sorts. During breakfast, I noticed my mood was off and felt an unusual irritability creeping in. I even caught myself speaking in a rather sharp tone. That's when I remembered HALT! ✋ For those who might not be familiar, HALT is an acronym that stands for: Hungry Angry Lonely Tired These are common emotional triggers that can throw us off balance. Often, it's a mix of these elements at play. Let me walk you through how I applied this simple yet powerful concept: Acknowledge the Feeling : I recognized that something was off during brea...

  🌟 Trust Your Instincts as a Leader 🌟 In our journey as leaders, listening to our instincts is crucial. One of my long-time clients, Sam (name changed), recently shared a valuable lesson: "Don't ignore your gut feeling." Here's the story: Sam was assembling a team of eight leaders, each responsible for a different vertical. One key vertical was a legacy initiative crucial to the organization. Playing it safe, Sam chose Alex, a well-qualified candidate, despite sensing their lack of interest during their initial conversation. He even enlisted a senior colleague to persuade Alex. Reluctantly, Alex accepted. However, once the project started, Alex's disinterest was evident. They avoided taking charge, expecting Sam to handle the initiative. Despite recognizing this, Sam continued to rationalize his choice, both to himself and others. Frequent nudges to Alex yielded no improvement. Even when his supervisor advised removing Alex from the role, Sam hesitated to make ...