Tillitonse - A Transformational Journey Together

10. Gratitude For The Winds That Help Me Fly And finally, to be able to make such an awesome trip from Bangkok to Banaras and then to the ashrams of the Bihar School of Yoga is indeed a privilege.   I am indeed fortunate to have an awesome set of people around me who allow and support me to enjoy these journeys.  My two fellow monkeys Divya and Shantanu are right up there. Shantanu works selflessly to conceptualize, organize and execute a wonderful experience . Working on the logisitics, coordination with the Ashrams to request for special classes and wonderful interactions and managing the multiple questions (and egos) that we, the trip participants, throw at him is a thankless task. He does this with a sense of calm and purpose that are inspiring. Divya is my catalyst. She calls me on my bullshit and nudges me in the right manner to keep me going.   I am indeed fortunate that this wonderful couple a...

9. Disconnect to Connect I cannot stress the importance of taking time off just be by yourself on a regular basis. Over the past few years, I have been getting away on my own and just finding the time and space to quieten my mind. Even two days are enough. Further, by not checking emails or social media, one can truly begin the process of connecting with one-self. Over a 1000 emails and Whatsapp messages welcomed me back. It only took a brief few moments to cut through the chaff. We tend to think that we cannot afford to disconnect from the world outside.  But it’s quite humbling on one hand and liberating on the other to know that you and the world can exist without each other quite nicely!

8. Devotion (‘Bhakti’) is More Than Blind Faith Paying for a VIP pass to get a special ‘darshan’ (view) in a temple and other similar practices where we contaminate the purity of introspection and devotion irk me. So, when I heard Sw. Niranjan at the Bihar School of Yoga give the following interpretation of ‘Bhakti’ (devotion), it gladdened my heart. Bhakti is not about rituals. It is about identifying  a higher order value/person and then constantly remembering this ideal as one goes through the acts of a regular day. Just like a mother who while going through her multiple chores, is connected to what he child is doing, similarly, the highest form of Bhakti is to remain connected to a higher good (this need not be a person, but a value we hold up).  This constant remembrance (‘smaran’) allows for us to have a relationship with this higher value and leads to living our life by these ideals resulting in increased peace and liberation from...

7. Yes, Our Gods Inhale! So there I was on the banks of the Ganga in Banaras, among the most holy spots for Hindus and I saw it – Painted on the wall was Lord Shiva – one of the three most revered Gods. Yup, there he was, looking cool and relaxed as he inhaled. Indeed the grass was greener on his side! This ‘accommodating’ aspect of Hinduism has always fascinated me. We are totally fine with our gods smoking grass, having multiple spouses, cheating and lying, getting drunk on one’s own ego (in addition to the benevolent actions of course)  – basically all the natural human tendencies. On the other hand, ever so often, there arises a puritanical trait (often aimed at curbing women’s liberties).  The ability for contradictions to exists, nay thrive, are quite amazing! I guess this is indeed a metaphor for how we live our lives.  But for now, let me just inhale as well and BE AT PEACE…..MAAAN!

6. Faith Amidst Life Unfolding – On the Banks of the Ganga in Banaras One of the most peculiar aspects of Hinduism is how the places of worship are not ‘islands of tranquility’ like those you would see in a church or a mosque. Instead, like most things in India, they are truly integrated into the chaos of life surrounding it. I spent a day walking by the ‘Ghats’ (riverside steps) of the Ganga in Banaras and it was quite amazing to see how practices of faith co-existed in harmony with more mundane daily acts – like washing and drying clothes, playing cards, getting a shave and cleaning cattle and humans. There is a part of me that has always identified with the quiet associated with places of worship of the more mono-theistic religions. Indeed, the Hindu temples seemed way too chaotic for any reflection and devotion. But, on the banks of the Ganga, as I strolled though on a quiet day enjoying gorgeous weather, it was mo...

5. Ask Believe Receive – Amazing how this works One of the most amazing insights that was reaffirmed during this trip was how when one really wants something and believe that we deserve to have it, the universe does indeed make it happen. What I further learnt in this trip was that if the environment around you is positive and conducive, then this is even more likely to happen. Maybe this has to do with our minds being more focused in such places. On numerous occasions during this trip in the tumultuous yet holy city of Banaras and the tranquility and grace of the ashrams of the Bihar School of Yoga, I found myself receiving what I asked for. Here are two examples: 1.      The ‘Hindu’ slant of the ashram has always left me a little uncomfortable. After all, by highlighting certain Hindu practices and rituals were we not excluding those from other faiths? I wanted to ask Sw. Niranjan, but the chance did not arise. One afternoon as I was sitti...

4. THE PURITY AT THE SOURCE I have been actively practicing ‘yoga’ for the past four years. Initially, whenever I asked my teacher Shantanu about what I should do more to progress faster on the esoteric (non-physical) elements of yoga, his stock response was ‘spend time at the Ashram.’ This used to infuriate me at times.   The ashram he referred to was the Bihar School of Yoga (BSY)– almost a 16 hour journey each way utilizing multiple transportation modes! BSY has two main ashrams – both in back of beyond places. They strongly believe that to maintain the purity of their teachings, a conducive environment is absolutely essential. Therefore, if one wants to learn yoga taught the BSY way, one has to indeed go there. The focus is on ensuring the purity of yoga teaching rather than on mass dissemination. Over the past four years, I found myself making these trips with increased enthusiasm. Last week, as I participated in the ‘asana’ and ‘pranayama’ sessions, I...