LESSON #2: EMPATHY FOR SELF AND OTHERS ARE COMPATIBLE! (NVC Intensive Training)





An amazing lesson learnt from the recent intensive training on Non-Violent Communication is that one can indeed balance empathy for ourselves and for others so harmoniously. I am already seeing the benefits in my interactions with people and am looking to this journey continuing.

The words we use (self-expression) are built on a foundation of empathy. Gaining increased mastery on self empathy and for others is a fascinating journey that I am on.

Immense gratitude flows through me. I find myself singing and even dancing (minus the Vodka), and that is always a good sign!

I have learnt. Now to live these practices and then to start sharing!

WOW!!! 

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